Prom dress shopping ended without a dress, and with my friend and me wondering who is designing these dresses for teenage girls. I’m okay with short skirts and short shorts (as long as the rear end is covered when bending over), and I was once known for the short skirts I wore. As a student employee I had a skirt or two I was asked to not wear to the office again. But compared to the prom dresses I saw I was dressed for a convent.
The worst ones were two piece outfits; a long skirt, and then a top the size of a sports bra covered in sequins. It looked terrible on the hanger, and I can’t imagine it actually looked good on anyone. Not what I want to see any teenage girl wearing at prom. Then there was the dress Oldest One tried on that was quite deceptive on the hanger. It was so low in back underwear couldn’t be worn, and the cutouts were so deep the front was compromised. I’m okay with a low back, but I would like her to be able to wear underwear without it being seen. And I want her front covered.
Do these designers think us parents want to put our daughter’s in these dresses? I saw dresses where the material was in strips on the top, so skin showed on the top and there was no back. Or the dresses that have the see through material on top; it doesn’t look good on a wedding dress and it sure doesn’t look good or appropriate on a prom dress. I have an idea where the designer’s heads were when they designed these dresses, and it’s too bad that this is what they think a prom dress should look like.
We didn’t see any girls trying the inappropriate dresses on, but we didn’t see anyone without a parent either. It isn’t like these dresses are affordable, because some of them were in the $300 range, which was well outside of what I was willing to pay for a dress that had all the material. I understand why many schools ban certain types of prom dresses these days.
I know, I sound really old, but these dresses were just so awful and inappropriate. I don’t want a picture of my daughter I wouldn’t want to put out because of what she is(n’t) wearing. Her taste might be different than mine, but last year she chose a very classic and elegant look, which the dresses with low backs and barely there fronts will never have. I think designers need to quite trying to be cutting edge (or their idea of it) with prom dresses, and keep to the cute and the classic.