When I did the budget last Friday I calculated all bills, groceries and gas through the month to try and scrounge up a bit more to buy some Christmas gifts for the girls. I even added extra into the food budget, figuring a bonus on the 23rd (yes, I’ll probably be shopping then) would be nice. That was blown to bits by Sunday evening.
This week is Spirit Week for basketball season. For $5 each the girls get to dress down all week. At a school with uniforms this isn’t to be missed. So I made sure to have $10. Then Little One needs something camouflage for Tuesday. She has a shirt with Bambi for animal print day (the school mascot is an animal), and she thinks she has red day covered, but nothing camouflage. So I bought her a shirt at Wal-Mart. Done!
No, not done. Oldest One gets home, and she said she is going out to buy shirts for Spirit Week with her friend, and she has money on her debit card. She has her gas money on her debit card, as I mentioned to her, and got hands thrown up in the air in response. Then her friend cancelled, and there have been a few friend issues there, so as I am getting ready to go shower, I get the “Mom, please go shopping with me.” 7:30p at night we got into my car to find yet another camouflage shirt and an animal print shirt. I did talk her into wearing a panda shirt she had, so I only had to buy her one shirt…plus the eyeliner, new shadow liner and a liner brush at Target that were really needed. Okay, we did have a good talk, and we did walk arm in arm through the stores and laugh a lot.
I can work with all that thrown in to the budget – kind of. But wait! I get a text from Little One this afternoon that her pink dance tights are ripped and she needs another pair for dance class. Oh, and Husband said we are going to go buy a prime rib for Christmas dinner (his parents enjoy it) tonight so he can do his aging thing with it. I’m waiting for Oldest One to need one more thing tonight so I can hit the trifecta.
This isn’t new, and why I thought I could make a budget that wouldn’t get dinged I have no idea. I know better. And it’s not like they won’t have gifts. Husband and I have some creative ideas and we are making some things the girls have asked for. And some they haven’t. Oldest One didn’t ask for a letter box for her varsity letter, but since she didn’t want a jacket, and because I don’t want it to get lost one day, we’ve decided to do that with it. She’ll like it one day when she has teenagers. Little One wants a bow holder (cheer bows multiply at night) and we are making that since I want a bigger size than we can buy.
So tonight, after we get done at the stores yet again, I am going to go home and pull out my budget that I so carefully put together. And I am going to rip it up and throw it away.